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Self Esteem Determines Who We Are

We may not realize it, but self-esteem is a great determinant of whether or not we will be a success in life or not. Why? Because self-esteem, or the way we view ourselves, including ours skills and our talents, affect our thoughts. And these thoughts turn into actions.

Taking actions are very important. Actions are the ones who move us closer to our dreams. If you have dreams and goals in life and you realize that you are not moving towards them then maybe you are not taking any action s or you are taking the wrong ones.

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Don’t hesitate, it can only help.

Cheers, Smiles, Laughs and Success,

What will 2010 bring for you?
Will it be better or will it just be another passing year?

Today being the first day of 2010, there are many things going through peoples minds like: “Why did I drink so much last night? or “Where did I leave my car?” No, but all kidding aside, what are you thinking about today? Are you thinking about how to make your 2010 better than your 2009?

Most people will probably make some kind of resolution or another. The standard “I’m going to loose X amount pounds/stop smoking/do more fitness/ be nicer to my spouse and kids by such and such a date” usually fall into the abyss of the forgotten before the month is out. We then get disappointed at our failure and give up until the next New Year comes around to start the whole process over again.

So how do we change that and make those resolutions stick and work?

One way is to realize that you can’t break old habits. You can only create new ones that are stronger and better. Trying to break a habit is telling your mind you must take away something and it rebels and tries to maintain it. When you create a new habit, preferably a good one, you tell your mind that you are adding something new and better to your life, make it more receptive to the change.

Becoming passionate about the change you want to make is extremely important. We tend to work harder and faster at achieving things we are passionate about. Remember courting your first big “True Love”? Nothing seemed impossible, right? So become passionate bout your goals. And I don’t mean take up stalking.

Some self-reflection questions you can ask yourself are:

1. Am I passionate about my goals?
2. Where can I find additional inspiration?
3. What task can I achieve today to fuel my passion and get me back on track toward my goals?

Using tools like affirmations to transform negative thoughts into positive ones or meditation to relax and rejuvenate your energy as well as posting notes and hanging up pictures to inspire and remind you of your goals. Create a Vision Board to hold the pictures of things you want to achieve in plain view on a daily basis.

Affirmations can also help fuel the passion and solidify the goal reaching process.
Here are some you could try:

I am passionate about my goals.

My passion drives me forward to live the life of my dreams.

I know what I want in life and I set goals to get me there.

I know that each goal I achieve brings me in union with what I desire.

I feel truly invigorated with each success!

Meeting a goal, no matter how big or small, strengthens my confidence and self-esteem.

I enjoy these feelings and strive to receive them as often as possible.

Today, I choose to feel inspired by my passions and let the excitement propel me forward to achieve my goals, regardless of any challenges that may arise.

Setting and achieving goals is a never-ending circle of positivity that fuels your passion even more. You can use your passion to encourage you and help you to persevere over obstacles. It will increase and replenish with every goal you complete.

Using tools like affirmations to transform negative thoughts into positive ones or meditation to relax and rejuvenate your energy as well as posting notes and hanging up pictures to inspire and remind you of your goals.

Another thing that helps us achieve our goals is the right mindset. I have compiled 15 Mindsets for 2010 into a pdf format that you can view online or download (for Free) at this link: 15 mindsets for 2010

Read these and apply them into your life to help you achieve your goals for this year.
I am off to a good start this 2010 and hope you will do the same.

So here’s to YOUR Wealth!

Cheers, Smiles, Laughs and Success,

P.S. I am working on completing my book; “Mentor Wealth Secrets” this month. If you would like to be one of the first to read it and give me a review or testimonial send a mail to “review (at) mentorwealthsecrets dot com”

If you are still talking about what you did yesterday…
you haven’t done much today.
- Author Unknown

As great as past achievements may make you feel, they pale in comparison to what you’re capable of doing today. It’s only natural to dwell on our previous accomplishments because they make us feel good about ourselves and what we have done. It makes us feel like a winner again. We can remember the glory of the battle, the challenges we overcame during the journey and we radiate with pride when we can say, “I did that.” That’s all wonderful, but the very next words out of your mouth should be, “What will I do next?”

Instead of patting yourself on the back with memories of what you’ve accomplished in the past, you can choose to make it your goal to continue growing, evolving and producing ever greater works. Once you start doing this, you’ll probably be surprised that you rarely feel compelled to look back at your past accomplishments. Why? Because you’ll be in the heat of the race and too busy being productive! Like an old country friend of mine used to say, “A dog in the hunt, don’t know he got fleas”.

Rather than dwelling on your past success, let it fuel your next project. Your accomplishments can offer something else of value besides a feeling of pride: it can offer you the confidence to try something new! Sometimes we let our past accomplishments do nothing more than serve as an excuse not to do anything more. Sometimes it is the fear of not being able to top a previous victory or we simply don’t want to try, and decide it’s safer to maintain the status-quo and bask in the afterglow. Ridiculous!

Let the excitement about your next endeavor get you fired up. Let it quicken your step and give you the exhuberance as you get ready for your next phase of growth. As exciting as your past achievements may have been, they cannot hold a candle to what you will do today! Someday when you have achieved your goals and created the future you and your family deserve, THEN you can look back and be proud of all you accomplished. Until then, you’re not nearly done yet. You’ve got mountains to climb, fears to face, doubts to overcome, and astounding achievements waiting to be realized. Go get to it!

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Cheers, Smiles and Success,
Crazy J

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